About

Hi there! I'm Hilary.

I'm an Occupational Therapist, Certified Professional Dominatrix, Energetics Expert, Personal Trainer, and Founder of Goddess Guidance.

My feminine journey began many years ago.

It started with fitness, and taking care of my body. Not only was fitness beneficial for my physical health, but it was making huge changes in my mental health and self-confidence. My mindset started to shift, as I realized I was capable of much more than I had previously believed. I continued down the personal growth journey, improving many areas of my life. I soon realized this new mindset and outlook on life was at odds with the trajectory of my marriage. I heard a quote about "show me the 5 people closest to you, and I'll show you your future." My current life was unfulfilling and mediocre. I had big dreams and KNEW I was meant to be living a higher purpose. Knowing my current circumstances would not support that, I made the decision to end my marriage.

So here I am- fresh out of a divorce and contemplating the next steps in my life. In the back of my mind, I always thought I would own my own business. So I became certified as a Personal Trainer and began my niche therapy practice. During this time, I began competing in bodybuilding. The discipline and mindset I gained from bodybuilding was life-changing. I truly learned what a huge impact mindset and discipline can have on your success in life. The combination of fitness, nutrition, mindset, and goal setting was transformational. Ultimately- it helped me to instill confidence, self-worth, and fulfillment in my daily life. All of these improved habits and skills were having such positive effects on my life, but something was still missing. I hadn't truly experienced deep fulfillment, indulgence, and pleasure. And you don't know what you don't know.

It was at this time, my Goddess journey began. *Your Goddess journey will not reveal itself to you until you are ready. You need to live the experiences and have the capacity for the changes you will experience.* Now having the confidence and strength needed, my Goddess journey began to unfold. It started with a retreat, and just accepting the use of the word "Goddess". Note- If it makes you uncomfortable to be called Goddess, you're in the right place! I learned I was (and had been) operating in my wounded masculine energy for years. Struggling with feeling isolated, drained, and unfulfilled. Realizing what an impact this not only had on my past, but my present and future as well- I delved into the world of energetics and the feminine/masculine balance. Researching, learning, and ultimately implementing the principles of energetics in real life. *Side note- this is when I began my Dominatrix journey, more on that here*

I experienced the value in building community and connecting with other women in alignment with their feminine. I committed to doing the inner work, through energy work, therapy, and meditation. Recognizing my shadow self, my patterns, and the energy I was attracting and releasing into the world. It was during this process that I began to discover my purpose, and what I am truly here for - to guide other women to realize their power, beauty, and purpose. To realize their true inner Goddess, and begin living the most incredible life of their dreams.

As a woman who has walked this path, I know exactly where you are right now. I believe we are most qualified to help the person we used to be. I am here for the women who aren't yet aware of their potential, or who feel too stuck or unworthy to pursue it. We will elevate the collective of divine feminine power- for you, for me, and for all of us.

xoxo, Goddess Hilary

Did you say Dominatrix?!

What the what?! I know, it sounds crazy, just trust me on this.

I have been so intrigued and fascinated by dominatrices. These incredibly powerful women who are worshipped by their submissives. Women who are able to wield their confidence, sensuality, and energetics in such a beautiful yet mystical way. And don't get me wrong, there are some dark corners of the industry as well. However, I pictured a different type of dynamic.

A dynamic where men would serve me, and worship me because of my divine energy. Worship me because they could feel the powerful, sensual, seductiveness just dripping off of me. I wanted to exude an otherworldly feminine energy and confidence- one that men would get on their knees for. What better way to learn the principles of divine feminine and masculine energy, than to learn from professional Dommes (that's another word for female Dominatrix).

I knew I wanted formal training, from the best of the best. I enrolled in a Dominatrix Academy, and received professional education and training from a legendary Dominatrix, who also has a PhD in Psychology. I learned everything there is to know about practicing as a Domme, and began my professional journey- with my own twist of course ;).

What I love most about the world of dominant/submissive dynamic is the power exchange. That men are willing to give over their masculine energy and power to me, and they trust me in such a vulnerable space. That they are not only willing to, but desire to get on their knees and serve me, as the Goddess that I am. They recognize my divine feminine energy, and know that it holds the healing, transformation, and reprieve they seek. The power exchange is reminiscent of the worship of priestesses long ago. The energy that fills the room is a tangible sense of power, sensuality, and the true expression of our beings.

Through my journey as a Domme, I have gained a powerful understanding of the divine feminine, the divine masculine, and the beautiful balance of the two. How these energies come together, in a safe, healed space, to create magical synergy.

I believe all women should experience this level of reverence and adoration in their lives. That women deserve to be treated with the respect, love, and worship of a Goddess- to raise the collective of divine feminine.

You can learn more about connecting with your most confident, sensual, and powerful energy in my Powerful Goddess courses, as well as 1:1 coaching.

I'm ready Goddess!

At what point did we stop recognizing our beauty, our potential, and our divine feminine power? No longer will we live in fear, doubt, and mediocrity. We are the creators of our joy, fulfillment, and our incredible reality. It's time to start truly living, Goddess.

-Goddess Hilary

My mission here is to raise the collective of women, and to bring back the reverence of the Divine Feminine.

In connecting with our inner Goddess, we will rediscover our self-love, confidence, and self-worth, that was lost long ago.

I am here to guide you on this journey. To walk alongside you as we rise above our limits, fears, and doubts. To guide you into a place of peace, fulfillment, and joy.

I am honored you have chosen to take this step. To honor yourself and the life you deserve to live. Welcome Goddess, let's change this world for you, for me, for all of us.

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